Fights between couples almost always boil down to the fight really being about Love and Respect. Eggerichs looks at different areas in life and how this topic interacts with those areas. Not only that, he gives a guide to both man and woman on how to better understand what is going on with the other person. He assures readers that implementing love and respect into the marriage will change the marriage for the better. When one spouse loves or respects, the other is motivated to reciprocate.
As a married person, this book has helped me to understand what my husband is looking for in our marriage. This book would be good not only for married couples but for those who are engaged or who are seriously thinking about marriage.
I agree...it was very entertaining because we love Mr. Darcy so much, but not enough Austen style...
ReplyDeleteI think the most important idea that comes out in this book is "The Crazy Cycle." Marriage will not function well if the crazy cycle is entered. Men respond well to feeling respected and women respond well to feeling loved, and if something happens to damage one of those feelings, the crazy cycle could begin...
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